Books
I write for the same reason I practice therapy: to help people move beyond symptom and silence—and into connection, clarity, and erotic vitality.
Whether you’re a clinician, a coach/healer, a couple, or someone quietly wondering “Is this normal?”, my books offer frameworks, language, and insight to explore the unconscious life of sexuality - both in the consulting room and everyday life.
Talking About Sex: A Guide to Confidence, Connection, and Communication
For couples, individuals, & the therapists who work with them
When it comes to sex, many people don’t know where to start or how to keep the conversation going over time.
This warm, practical guide blends clinical insight with step-by-step tools to make sexual communication feel easier, deeper, and more rewarding.
Inside you’ll find:
Conversation guides to talk about sex without shame
Reflection prompts and partner exercises
Insights on fantasy, desire, sexual identity, and long-term intimacy
A roadmap for becoming more present in your body, relationships, and self
This book helps you move past silence and uncertainty into conversations that spark closeness, curiosity, and erotic connection.
Psychoanalytic Sex Therapy: Exploring the Unconscious Life of Sexuality
For clinicians, therapists, & advanced students
This book bridges the gap between modern sex therapy and contemporary psychoanalysis, offering an integrative framework for understanding sexual concerns.
Drawing on theory, vignettes, and practical tools, it helps therapists understand the emotional roots of erotic symptoms.
Learn how to:
Understand sexual problems as symbolic expressions of unconscious conflict
Integrate fantasy, Core Erotic Themes, and countertransference into case work
Apply psychoanalytic thought while remaining sex-positive and practical
Work with both body and mind in the treatment room